Personal Development and Relationship

When I was a bit younger, I have always dreamt of a day I will have my own family and enjoy the benefits attached to becoming a husband. I have watched with keen interest how mum and dad always related and this has triggered a hunger to grow up and get married so I can also enjoy such bliss. Because of this very longing for a family, we engaged in the “daddy and mummy play” with our peers (let me just hold it right here, that play was hmm). Then we grew up and reality dawned on us. We now know better and have found several reasons why getting married is a very bad idea. Today, a good number of our youngsters are afraid of getting married. They run away from it like a plague and will do all it takes to avoid it. Of all the several reasons or excuses they give, here are what I regard as the most important five reasons why most singles hate the idea of getting married. 1.       Sacrifice: Getting married is all about responsibility and making ...

Take this from me, women are wonderful. They are the only creatures on earth who are as complicated as their body system. They can be simple and at the same time complicated, can smile and at the same time cry. They are so confused about their choices that they can say no when they actually mean yes and say yes when they mean no, say no when they mean no, and say yes when they mean yes.   (Please read it again). Only a woman can find everything wrong with everything. She is so details oriented that she can tell you about every tiny little details, from how she woke up from her bed to how she walked through the streets, how many people told her she is beautiful and then how she opened the door to her office, how she had a bad day because the cleaners were very happy (am already feeling sleepy already). Despite being unique and nice, I have come to realize that women are the genesis of their own problems and have some habits they need to cut away from. Join me as I ta...

Pregnancy comes with a lot of complications and challenges. I am not a lady but I must confess that I usually feel the pains they have to go through simply because they want to bring a child to the world. I don’t really know how they are able to walk freely on the street, how they are able to share virtually almost everything with a growing foetus. I can go on and on and still the questions will never come to an end. Pregnancy is a complicated beautiful thing which always comes with its own palaver. Most of the times, these woman tend to lose their cool and can go about doing things that are totally unacceptable in the society. I don’t know how our parents used to behave during their pregnancy stages but I surely feel there is something wrong with the 21 st century pregnant woman. After a thorough study into the life of the 21 st century pregnant women here are some sins I believe they are all guilty of. 1.       Laziness I have never see...

Over the week, there was a trending video on how a popular man of God called out some youths and merged them together. That very video was controversial as so many people used it as an opportunity to either question the authority Of the scriptures or the sanity Of The believers. We now live in a world where unlike apostle Paul who said, You say, "I am allowed to do anything"--but not everything is good for you. You say, "I am allowed to do anything"--but not everything is beneficial. 1 Corinthians 10:30, we believe we have the right to do all things. Authority is not equal to anointing and the two can never be the same. While the leaders Of The Pharisees lord it over them, Christian leaders ought not to do that. Marriage is an institution ordained by God and it was in his plans to make Eve out Of the ribs of Adam and brough her to him. She was created when Adam was fast asleep and when he woke up from the God induced sleep he found her and said this is the bone o...

Yes you have seen the topic right. It was not a typographical error. For quite some times now, I have met a good number of people who run helter-skelter in search of relationship advice. I have seen quite a good number of individuals become rich just by offering to offer relationship advice to these innocent individuals who want to make their relationships perfect and friction free. I am a relationship blogger and I can tell you from experience that people can do just anything in order to have a perfect relationship. Here are three reasons why I feel taking relationship advice from others is a totally bad idea. I am not in any way condemning or trying to brainwash the clients of some love doctors. 1. Your relationship is unique Genetically, no two individuals are the same. Man is a unique creature with several characteristics. Every one has what he/she wants from a partner. While others are basically touchy, others are not. While some are verbal, others prefer to express their love...

There is nothing as simple and at the same time as complicated as a relationship. What makes it even worse is the complicated nature of ladies behavior. If humans were devices, permit me to say that women are an advanced version of men. The fact that she doesn't even know what she wants is scaring enough.  It is quite hard to decipher what is going through her mind because she doesn't even know herself. Her multi tasking nature has made her to do things which are generally impossible for men.  While in a relationship, the lady can go to any length to make the man better, she can do all things possible to make sure he is exactly what she wants him to be. In a bid to do this, she may end up comparing her man with others and thus, may lead to the relationship breaking up.  Here are some signs to look out for whenever a lady is comparing you with someone.  1. She complains about your attitude  I don't even know who made the rule that it's a lady'...

With the alarming rate at which crime grows in our present day society, one is left but to wonder whether we still have an element of humanity running through our veins. The inhuman nature of man has continued to encroach into his sense of humanity and has made him nothing but a mirage of his true self which is a total opposite of whom he really was supposed to be. The disturbing headlines carried by our national dailies is a clear indication that our morals have gone to sleep on the bed of civilization and our conscience have been put to bed by the lullabies of contemporary literature which has fed us nothing but junk leaving us to vomit and defecate all manners of inhuman activities which cannot be thought of even among the animals. Our cherished possessions, norms and values have been thrown into the gutters simply because the creative and critical thinkers (writers) who are the primary custodians of morals and values have failed in their capacity to remind us of their v...