Personal Development and Relationship

When I was a bit younger, I have always dreamt of a day I will have my own family and enjoy the benefits attached to becoming a husband. I have watched with keen interest how mum and dad always related and this has triggered a hunger to grow up and get married so I can also enjoy such bliss. Because of this very longing for a family, we engaged in the “daddy and mummy play” with our peers (let me just hold it right here, that play was hmm). Then we grew up and reality dawned on us. We now know better and have found several reasons why getting married is a very bad idea. Today, a good number of our youngsters are afraid of getting married. They run away from it like a plague and will do all it takes to avoid it. Of all the several reasons or excuses they give, here are what I regard as the most important five reasons why most singles hate the idea of getting married. 1.       Sacrifice: Getting married is all about responsibility and making ...

Yes you have seen the topic right. It was not a typographical error. For quite some times now, I have met a good number of people who run helter-skelter in search of relationship advice. I have seen quite a good number of individuals become rich just by offering to offer relationship advice to these innocent individuals who want to make their relationships perfect and friction free. I am a relationship blogger and I can tell you from experience that people can do just anything in order to have a perfect relationship. Here are three reasons why I feel taking relationship advice from others is a totally bad idea. I am not in any way condemning or trying to brainwash the clients of some love doctors. 1. Your relationship is unique Genetically, no two individuals are the same. Man is a unique creature with several characteristics. Every one has what he/she wants from a partner. While others are basically touchy, others are not. While some are verbal, others prefer to express their love...

There is nothing as simple and at the same time as complicated as a relationship. What makes it even worse is the complicated nature of ladies behavior. If humans were devices, permit me to say that women are an advanced version of men. The fact that she doesn't even know what she wants is scaring enough.  It is quite hard to decipher what is going through her mind because she doesn't even know herself. Her multi tasking nature has made her to do things which are generally impossible for men.  While in a relationship, the lady can go to any length to make the man better, she can do all things possible to make sure he is exactly what she wants him to be. In a bid to do this, she may end up comparing her man with others and thus, may lead to the relationship breaking up.  Here are some signs to look out for whenever a lady is comparing you with someone.  1. She complains about your attitude  I don't even know who made the rule that it's a lady'...

To be honest with y'all, I am afraid of how relationships are turning out to be these days. Gone are the days when people in a relationship gave all they had just to make the other person happy. The only thing we are now interested in is Self Interest Now (SIN). The wedding night has lost its value and importance, a lot of people have even experienced it several times before it arrives. You can read my article on what people do on their wedding night here This post is written as a reply to my previous post on what ladies could offer in a relationship apart from sex. You can read the previous article here. Here are three things I think guys should ask for in a relationship apart from sex 1. LOVE Let the lady love you for you, not out of pity or what you can offer her in terms of material things. It is called a relationship not an employment. The lady should be able to take care of herself even without your help. Ask for her undying love and not her body. When you have her ...

Okay, I guess you are also as eager as I was. The wedding night activities has been so over hyped that we think of so many things that may likely happen on that day. For our present day generation, the wedding night has already lost its meaning because most people are not anticipating to participate in something for the first time. They have had their wedding night several times before the real one. Am sure many of you are already thinking what I once thought. It was that same thinking that led me to ask some people questions about what they did on their wedding night and I decided to compile the list by choosing the top three. 1. Sleep: The wedding arrangement and events is so hectic that all the newly weds want to do is hit the bed and rest their bones. A lot of them end up sleeping throughout the night. 2. Gist: After the wedding, the bride and the groom will want to sit down and analyse what happened throughout the day. They will talk about how their friends danced, h...

Relationships are now losing there true meanings. People no longer understand what a relationship truly is or why they are in it in the first place. What even made it worse is how kids now regard it as their playground.  Relationships are great, they are nice and worth engaging in but when the two parties have no idea as to why or what trigger them into the relationship then they have succeeded in wasting each other's time and resources. Read my article on why do people date  Permit me to say, apart from sex and romance almost 80% of ladies don't have anything to offer in a relationship. Sex is not part of a relationship in the first place, it was not even supposed to be part of the agenda, it was not even supposed to be among the things to be offered in a relationship, it was just an act created for procreation.  A healthy relationship goes beyond holding hands, kissing like pigeons, romancing each other, engaging in activities together, it is all about sa...

Today’s woman has been tricked by adverts, social media, and even the media houses into believing that what defines her beauty is her ability to be a face painter. She has been brainwashed to believe that beauty comes from how well she paints her face and nails in different colors. It is annoying seeing a woman look like a rainbow all because she wants to be addressed as beautiful. Permit me to say that a woman’s dressing is incomplete without a bag housing a tiny little box where face painting tools like the lip stick, eye mascara wand, blush brush, and powder are safely kept and used often. Beauty goes beyond having a pretty face, nice curves at the right place, and even appearance. It is the sum total of how you see yourself. Find below, seven characters that define a woman’s beauty beyond the makeup she wears. 1.       Passion: A woman who is passionate about nothing is just another beautiful lost in the jungle of life. Passion is the compass which...

It is quite funny to realise that  90% of people who go into dating don’t even know why they are into it. A  lot of people cannot give a justifiable reason why they started dating or thought of dating in the first place. Dating is the activity of going out regularly with somebody as a social or romantic partner. Dating is supposed to be the first step in social relationship and the other steps include courtship, engagement and marriage. But unlike we have on paper, dating is now engaged in for several reasons. Here is a list of the most common reasons people give for dating. 1.     1.    It is fun I believe maybe they derive fun in inflicting emotional pains on their partners. It is a source of enjoyment and recreation to those who are engaged in it. It helps them to relax together and to also enjoy each other’s company. I think dating should be more than just deriving fun, it should contain series of events which prepares the participants f...