Personal Development and Relationship

We now live in a world where everything is done at a very fast rate. We grow up fast, learn fast, eat fast food, fall in love fast, get married fast and also get divorced fast. In our contemporary world, we avoid everything that comes with too many responsibilities as we would do a plague. Contrary to what we grew up to see, marriage has gone from an institution to a contract agreement. You are free to live as soon as the terms and conditions no longer appeal to you. It is now a death trap for men and an avenue of abuse for the women. Marriage is now a prison where both parties are chained together with a tiny little ring for the rest of their lives. Every marriage must pass through three stages of growth before both parties can enjoy it; the adaptation stage, the intermediate stage and the maturity stage. Although the first stage occurs within the first three to ten years of marriage, research has shown that most marriage contracts are terminated here. This is the stag...

With the alarming rate at which crime grows in our present day society, one is left but to wonder as whether we still have an element of humanity running through our veins. The inhuman nature of man has continued to encroach into his sense of humanity and has made him nothing but a mirage of his true self which is a total opposite of whom he really was supposed to be. The disturbing headlines carried by our national dallies is a clear indication that our morals have gone to sleep on the bed of civilization and our conscience have been put to bed by the lullabies of contemporary literature which has fed us nothing but junk leaving us to vomit and defecate all manners of inhuman activities which cannot be thought of even among the animals. Our cherished possessions, norms and values have been thrown into the gutters simply because the creative and critical thinkers (writers) who are the primary custodians of morals and values have failed in their capacity to remind us of the...

Whether by accident or design, you have one day come across a baby in your life. You must have observed how people want to carry them by all means. Most people tend to be attracted by the baby’s aura and this draws them closer. Babies are adorable, they are worth loving and above, they can also teach us some certain traits about life. Here are four rules of attraction as observed from babies. 1.       Be yourself: Babies are so natural that they don’t even know what it means to fake their identity. They are always themselves and that attracts people to them. Babies don’t need to adapt to people’s thoughts or ideas, they display their real character at all times. This very trait makes people want to associate with them. Let people know you for who you truly are. 2.       Smile: I have noticed that making a baby smile is regarded as a trophy or a reward for a job well done. Each time the baby smiles, s/he send this unusual ...

Take this from me, women are wonderful. They are the only creatures on earth who are as complicated as their body system. They can be simple and at the same time complicated, can smile and at the same time cry. They are so confused about their choices that they can say no when they actually mean yes and say yes when they mean no, say no when they mean no, and say yes when they mean yes.   (Please read it again). Only a woman can find everything wrong with everything. She is so details oriented that she can tell you about every tiny little details, from how she woke up from her bed to how she walked through the streets, how many people told her she is beautiful and then how she opened the door to her office, how she had a bad day because the cleaners were very happy (am already feeling sleepy already). Despite being unique and nice, I have come to realize that women are the genesis of their own problems and have some habits they need to cut away from. Join me as I ta...

Pregnancy comes with a lot of complications and challenges. I am not a lady but I must confess that I usually feel the pains they have to go through simply because they want to bring a child to the world. I don’t really know how they are able to walk freely on the street, how they are able to share virtually almost everything with a growing foetus. I can go on and on and still the questions will never come to an end. Pregnancy is a complicated beautiful thing which always comes with its own palaver. Most of the times, these woman tend to lose their cool and can go about doing things that are totally unacceptable in the society. I don’t know how our parents used to behave during their pregnancy stages but I surely feel there is something wrong with the 21 st century pregnant woman. After a thorough study into the life of the 21 st century pregnant women here are some sins I believe they are all guilty of. 1.       Laziness I have never see...

Yes you have seen the topic right. It was not a typographical error. For quite some times now, I have met a good number of people who run helter-skelter in search of relationship advice. I have seen quite a good number of individuals become rich just by offering to offer relationship advice to these innocent individuals who want to make their relationships perfect and friction free. I am a relationship blogger and I can tell you from experience that people can do just anything in order to have a perfect relationship. Here are three reasons why I feel taking relationship advice from others is a totally bad idea. I am not in any way condemning or trying to brainwash the clients of some love doctors. 1. Your relationship is unique Genetically, no two individuals are the same. Man is a unique creature with several characteristics. Every one has what he/she wants from a partner. While others are basically touchy, others are not. While some are verbal, others prefer to express their love...

There is nothing as simple and at the same time as complicated as a relationship. What makes it even worse is the complicated nature of ladies behavior. If humans were devices, permit me to say that women are an advanced version of men. The fact that she doesn't even know what she wants is scaring enough.  It is quite hard to decipher what is going through her mind because she doesn't even know herself. Her multi tasking nature has made her to do things which are generally impossible for men.  While in a relationship, the lady can go to any length to make the man better, she can do all things possible to make sure he is exactly what she wants him to be. In a bid to do this, she may end up comparing her man with others and thus, may lead to the relationship breaking up.  Here are some signs to look out for whenever a lady is comparing you with someone.  1. She complains about your attitude  I don't even know who made the rule that it's a lady'...

To be honest with y'all, I am afraid of how relationships are turning out to be these days. Gone are the days when people in a relationship gave all they had just to make the other person happy. The only thing we are now interested in is Self Interest Now (SIN). The wedding night has lost its value and importance, a lot of people have even experienced it several times before it arrives. You can read my article on what people do on their wedding night here This post is written as a reply to my previous post on what ladies could offer in a relationship apart from sex. You can read the previous article here. Here are three things I think guys should ask for in a relationship apart from sex 1. LOVE Let the lady love you for you, not out of pity or what you can offer her in terms of material things. It is called a relationship not an employment. The lady should be able to take care of herself even without your help. Ask for her undying love and not her body. When you have her ...